To bring your relationship to higher levels of gain
of fun, and friendship, and contentment, and excitement,
If your partner is hurt, be there for her at any moment,
If your partner is healed, don't hurt her again.
So, you both healed, are there for each other
at any given moment. So, she doesn't hurt the other.
And thus, to stop the cycle of hurting one another again. 

Berta's arbor harbor, was my next door, only poor neighbor,
And lived in a poor shed, in a wealthy neighborhood
her shack back by the woods stood
for her lack of servants, to do house labor.
Had children, and one breastfeeding, to the number of ten.
She then, with most missing, and much needing, said:
when the eleventh baby comes, I will look for your aid
and after that, I'll have as many, as God send then.
But, when Berta died, it was loud with twelve kids crying
and there was silence in heavens, for her poor choices -
keeping her poor in judgement, for her insolence, till dying -
Berta's ignorance or innocence or nonsense, left eleven crying voices;
of eleven kids plus me, mourning the death, of the twelfth.
I then asked the eight fathers, of the twelfth:
why bring kids to the world to suffer?
Why not have, the ones you can afford?
They replied: as many, as send us the lord!
Too many, too often, of this insolence of God's false offer
that this ignorance, and this absurd impertinence occurs.
Let kids live, with love and abundance without suffer,
and let the responsibility be ours. 

So much pain
had

my dying dad
again

doctors in vain
spread

hopes of dread -
slain

cancer had dad
dead -

…for me living
dying

but with thee
be! 

Oh, mother I miss you.
The vivid dreams of you
the streams of love you give
that sees you above live:

and I hold you alive and well!
There where you boldly dwell:
holy are those ardent vent moments
that in my awake moments is but laments -

I hold you to hold-on to the dream, to say farewell
Oh, the feeling of letting you go, makes me feel unwell
Oh, mother I miss you.
Oh, the bliss I feel when I am with you!   

I always wanted to know
how a real family life feels like
how feels to love and be loved feels like
I always family love wanted to know.

Because I craved that feeling
of consummated loving feeling
of wanting more of what I don't have
and of not wanting what I have.

Is just like that feeling that I am not needing
but just pure experience of what I am needing
I suddenly realize that I am missing you -
that experience, that feeling, that I fully am realizing you.

I always wanted to know what I don't have -
how a real family really feels now to have.